The Dear Daycare Parent Blog
A few weeks ago I had a very nice conversation with a mom about my book Dear Daycare Parent. While her child is older now, she said she really could have used a book like this when she first brought her little boy to preschool. She explained how on the first day at drop off her son just clung to her legs and being new to the situation she didn’t know what would be the right thing to do. Holding back tears she didn’t know if she should just make the break or stay. It was a very hard and emotional moment filled with confusion. This is one of the issues we address and explain in our book! And if you are not fortunate to have knowledgeable and attentive teachers, these suggestions can certainly help you turn a situation around.
You see, that is WHY this book was written! We could see the discomfort and stress so many parents were feeling in truly not knowing what would be the best course of action. Take note that YES this is a VERY big deal in you and your child’s life! The intention of this book is to make a better experience for you, your child, and the teachers. It helps to clear up some important topics. And I know there are some of you parents out there who leave thinking, “Oh the teachers must think I’m a bad mom or dad for doing what I did.” I know it because you have told me so. And to be honest after doing this for so many years and seeing so much, yes there are times when we say under our breath, “Really? What were they thinking?” LOL! Dear Daycare Parent helps to alleviate some of the misunderstandings and we share stories to further explain what we mean and why a tip is significant.
Jo and I wrote this book because we care and truly want to help out those parents new to the daycare environment. We offer you our many years of valuable experience. We know what works and what doesn’t. So if you or someone you know is thinking of putting their child in daycare, this is a must have. (It makes a great gift!) We hope you will learn some things and enjoy our stories. It’s written in an easy to read and down to earth style. As if we were just standing there talking to you.
Filed Under: Hints and Tips for Parents
Clorox bleach did an advertisement about a bleachable moment. Every time I see this ad, I smile. It reminds me of a tip that Jackie and I included in our book, Dear Daycare Parent: The Must Have Guide To Daycare For Working Parents. The commercial is about a little boy who has to go to the bathroom; but he has a belt on that he can’t get off. He’s getting desperate and finally hollers out, “Mom, we have a situation!” (See the video here) https://www.ispot.tv/ad/7aVO/clorox-bleach-bleachable-moments-belt-buckle#
In our book, we have a tip titled, “Dress for Success”. When children are in the process of toilet training, you need to be mindful of what you are dressing them in. It is no secret that young children will wait until the last minute to go to the bathroom, or they will “do the dance” when they quickly realize that they have to go. So, T-shirts that snap in the crotch, overalls, suspenders, belts, tights, or thermal under wear do not help children in becoming independent. Young children want to be more self-sufficient, so when it comes to dressing your child, remember “easy on and easy off” is best!
There is one more important tip we would like to mention here about toilet training. It’s a pretty big milestone in a little one’s life and can take a lot of time and ah yes patience. It is best to start this process at home! A long weekend would be ideal. Sending your toddler in to school one day proclaiming, “Hey, he’s wearing underwear for the first time today…yahooo!” This is not a good idea! They need a quieter time at home with one on one attention. Think about how stressful it would be to try to learn this for the first time in an environment that is full of activity and lots of other children the same age. It’s a no win for both child and staff. Once your child has been introduced to this new expectation at home, THEN speak with the teachers about continuing it at school.
Filed Under: Hints and Tips for Parents
Recently, I read an article about secondary drowning, I never knew there was such a thing. Secondary Drowning is when someone inhales water, but the response can take up to 72 hours to affect the body. There are up to 1000 children that die each year from this. Please take the time to read this article and the symptoms that accompany secondary drowning. (Read it here)
This reminds me of an incident that happened when I was a child. When I was growing up, we had an above ground pool. It was about 4 ½ feet deep, so my parents always kept the ladder up and locked unless they were out there with us. I remember one year, the pool had just been filled, so the water was cold! However, it was a very hot day, so my mom had promised us that we could go into the pool. When she finally unlocked the ladder to the pool, my brothers quickly climbed the ladder and jumped right in, because they knew how to swim. My sisters and I could not, so my mother put life jackets on each one of us. We floated around in the pool with our mom, as my brothers swam and did cannon balls from the deck. The water was so cold, I was shivering, but I didn’t want to get out of the water. Soon it wasn’t a choice, our mother insisted, and brought us each to the ladder to climb out. She took our life jackets off and reached for a towel to warm us up, only to learn that my brother’s cannon balls soaked the stack of towels. My mom had us sit in the chairs on the deck and told my brothers that she was going to get some dry towels.
Soon, she was at the back door with a new stack of towels. I decided to walk over to the ladder, so I could get a towel to get warm. But, as soon as I took my first step, my foot slipped on the wet deck and I fell into the pool. I remember seeing the look on my mother’s face as she watched me topple into the water. She must have raced down those back steps and quickly up the pool ladder, because in an instance I could feel her arms around me, lifting me up and out of the water. I was coughing and spitting up water and I could feel my mother slapping my back to help me expel the water; but I was okay. Reading that article, helped me to realize how truly lucky I had been as a child.
Knowing that a lot of parents will be bringing their child to the beach or a pool, I felt this article had important information, so I wanted to pass it on to you.
Filed Under: Miscellaneous
Here we are in the midst of summer and once again the stories of children dying in hot cars is in the news. So senseless! The following is an article about steps you can take to make sure this tragedy doesn’t happen to you.
One tip that is especially important if your child is in daycare is this, make sure your daycare has a policy that if you do not show up on a scheduled day, they will call you to find out why. Ok folks, so here is the problem. When we follow the rule and call, some parents get annoyed or do not respond to messages left. Remember, we are doing this for the well being of you and your child! No need to get upset and PLEASE simply call back to let us know everything is ok. It’s worth it as it could save a life!
Filed Under: Miscellaneous
With a sense of humor and a keen insight, authors Jackie Rioux and Jo-Ann Parylak, have drawn from their combined forty-five years of childcare experience to bring you over 100 tips and real-life examples, covering everything from drop-off to departure.